If your child is getting married soon, it is necessary to give wedding speeches as the father of the bride or groom. Parent style wedding speeches should be more than an inspiring talk more than wishes and blessings that can be given by the majority of older relatives.As the father of the bride or groom, you should address his speech to the groom as a way of man to man advice, but never too hard to create negativity or bad feelings during such joyous celebration. Especially if you are the father of the bride wedding speech should be full of happiness despite the hidden sadness and longing he feels for his daughter to sit down to a quieter life.Parent style wedding speeches can be found in several references such as books, websites, magazines and other reading materials. However, when you are thinking about what is going to give talks as a parent, you should always ensure that what you are saying is in your heart. Never use prefabricated templates or speeches, because it ca n not address the true essence of his speech, and will not be able to deliver the message you want to share with your daughter or son. The important thing to give a speech or toast is giving from the bottom of our hearts and say the most sincere congratulations and best wishes that you can give your child a newlywed.By giving the the toast in the original form that fathers do, the first thing that you can talk about is the child of your son or daughter and the simple things that only you two do together, and now can not do because he / she is already married. You should also advise the couples in maintaining their relationship and peaceful coexistence. Finally, the parent style to wedding speeches, being bossy, but speaking in a gentle and loving.Remember, in giving these speeches father style, the first idea that you can talk about is the childhood of your son or daughter and the simple things that only you two do together, and now you can no longer do because he/she is alr eady wed. You should also give advice to the couple in maintaining their relationship and living together peacefully. Finally, in giving speeches father style, be authoritative but speak in a gentle and loving way."When my daughter announced she planned to marry the groom I thought I had better carry out some background checks. So I went to his local police station and asked if he was well behaved. The sergeant behind the desk was very reassuring. Apparently they never had any bother with him whenever he spent the night there."Somehow you can get away with very corny jokes at a wedding; jokes that would fall very flat at any other venue. Perhaps it is that often half the crowd doesn't know the other half. Or perhaps it is that everybody is trying very hard to be polite, and make it a happy day for the bride and groom. But really, I think it's often more likely that most guests have already had "one too many" and will laugh at anything that's said, even a very modest attempt at humor.The father of the bride traditionally has a special place at weddings. Most likely this is because he was usually expected to be the host and foot the bill for the reception in times past. Shades of another tradition in some cultures and older times of paying a dowry, and the daughter leaving home to live with the groom's family, I suppose. The bill is often spread around a little more widely between the families these days. But it is still a wrench for a father to see his beautiful daughter leave home to live with her new partner. It's the public "giving your daughter away" tradition that makes it even worse. Many a father of the bride has secretly quickly wiped away a tear or two at his daughter's wedding.This special place for the bride's father sometimes means he gets the role of master of ceremonies for his daughter's wedding, and must step in from time to time and say a few words to keep the occasion moving along. Sometimes this role goes to the best man, to a nother guest who is an able speaker, or even to a professional entertainer, if the budget stretches that far.Whether or not he is the master of ceremonies, the father of the bride is usually expected to give a short speech at the reception. The pattern is fairly well established by tradition:1. A few opening lines, perhaps with some humor to get everyone's attention.2. Thanks to the guests for coming and to the supportive people behind the organization of the event.3. Some comments about the day so far, such as flattering comments directed to the ladies.4. A few personal comments about how it feels to be father of the bride.5. A few affectionate words on the bride.6. Perhaps some comment on how the romance started and blossomed into the marriage.7. A welcome to the family for the groom.8. Some comments on the couple's plans, a few words of wisdom and advice, and best wishes for their future together.9. A toast (or two), to the couple and their future, and perhaps to mention absent relatives and friends.10. A few closing lines, often as the host wishing everyone a pleasant time for the remainder of the festivities.Putting together a successful speech comes easy to some, but it can be a big help to get a professionally prepared draft and checklist to work off. After all, giving a father of the bride wedding speech may only happen once or twice in the lives of most fathers. And there are few things worse than being told afterwards by the bride's mother that you completely forgot to mention Aunty Mildred's hard work icing the wedding cake!Read more about Father of The Bride Speech
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