The father of the bride wedding speech is one of the easiest wedding speeches to give. His one toast should be to the bride and groom and his speech beforehand should honor his daughter and express his love and admiration for her.
He should also express his acceptance of the groom as his son-in-law, as well as his happiness over the union.
As with all wedding speeches, the father of the bride wedding speech should be kept relatively short under five minutes if possible. Because the wedding speech for the father of the bride is usually one of the easiest and shortest speeches made in most weddings, many fathers choose to recall one or two moments from their daughters childhood and expound on it, usually in a nostalgic way when creating their father of the bride wedding speech. They may also choose a slightly humorous incident to share with the audience.
If the incident shows insight into the daughters character and personality, so much the better. One dad, during his father of the bride wedding speech, spoke of how his daughter spent many hours looking for frogs to catch as a young child, thinking that she might find the one that turns into a prince with a simple kiss.
This father used the humorous story of his daughters fascination with frogs and princes to smoothly transition into acknowledging his approval for the man shed chosen as her husband.
Anytime you can manage to weave a childhood story or humorous incident into a smooth transition of acknowledgement or support for the union, youll always keep the attention of the audience and youll enjoy the success that comes from knowing your father of the bride wedding speech was appreciated.
Even if you arent quite the storyteller as this one father was, you can still manage to give a decent father of the bride speech, if you follow a few simple pointers.
Before writing your speech, take a few minutes to jot down some memories of your daughters childhood and teenage years. You never know what might make good material for a father of the bride wedding speech and something may come to you while you are writing. Think of some of the conversations youve had with your daughter.
Try to remember things she said that made you smile at the time, or that still make you smile when you remember them. Dont be afraid of being too sentimental. Everyone loves a sentimental dad!
Once you have a few things on your list, then decide what one incident or conversation youd like to share with the audience at your daughters wedding. If you feel like sharing two things, by all means do so, but remember your time limit and dont share so much that you go beyond the time frame allotted.
Make a second list of the things youd like to tell the bride and groom. This is the part where youll express your love, support and happiness. Once you have an idea of what you want to say, try to write a fairly simple speech incorporating the chosen incident from your daughters childhood and the things youd like to tell her and the groom, as well as any advice you might have for the two of them as they start their life together.
Fatherly words of advice are often encouraged during father of the bride speeches. Remember to include the toast at the end! The toast should be simple and sincere; something along the lines of Having said all of that, I would now like to propose a toast to my daughter and new son-in-law. May they have a lifetime of happiness!
Once youve finished writing your father of the bride wedding speech, you can always revise it as you see fit, or seek some advice from someone with good writing or speaking skills to help you hone it into the finished product.
And then, practice! Practicing the finished speech in front of a mirror several times (or several dozen times would be better) will make all the difference in the world when you get ready to deliver your father of the bride wedding speech on your daughters special day.
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