Tuesday, 28 August 2012

Wedding Preparation

It's hard to believe, but true - many couples do not create a budget when it comes to wedding preparation and end up in a deep hole of debt. The very first thing you should do to avoid disastrous (and bankrupting) wedding mistakes is devise an itemized budget, allowing for the necessary requirements, such as a venue for both the ceremony and reception, food and drinks, flowers, favors, decorations, etc.

During the course of wedding preparation there are many important decisions that will be made in a very short period of time. In reference to plating or floral choices most of these decisions are easy. Although some of these quick decisions will hold great importance such as wedding location or choosing the Best man.

During the period of frenetic preparations, couples sometimes bicker over some choices. When emotions run high, they need a break and some professional counseling to survive the countdown to the big day. With the help of their families and friends, they can carry on with the ordeal of wedding preparations.
Some of the most popular forms of wedding ceremony involve either a chapel ceremony or an ocean side ceremony. Feasibility and availability are two things to look at when considering either ceremony. The location of a chapel in relation to family as well as the availability of time for the chapel itself are two thing that incorporated with availability. Sanctions and limitations are two types of availability the couples must consider when having a beach ceremony.

Every bride has her own expectation of how her wedding should be like. Often as little girls, we would have dreamt of how romantic and perfect it should turn out to be, just like many fairytale weddings we have seen on TV. Being a typical guy, your future hubby might not have the same take towards this. To him, he might not understand why you insist on recreating the "dream wedding" as it may make the preparations more complicated. If both parties have very different expectations, this will cause a l ot of friction in the long run.

Life and love flows in seasons and stages. There are many circular parallels between nature and life itself. Perhaps you are currently enduring the winter season of your relationship and engagement. Realize your love has not died, but rather its roots are going deep and your love's foundation being strengthened. Commitment surpasses romantic notions and fluctuating feelings. Often love is more of a decision than a feeling.

Make a checklist of all the tasks you need help with and list all the people whom you think will be suitable for the job. Make sure you consider the person's personality, taste, style, skills, experience, and hobbies.





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